I have no idea why people enjoy flirting by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony to the opposite sex. Maybe it is their way of healing. Sigh. Only God could work through you. And i know i have no rights to say anything. I can only sit back to watch the show infront of me. Why would someone say suggestive things to the opposite sex like calling them to come up to the place where he is. Well, i know he may try to justify that he is just being friendly. But the language is indirectly hinting something. And the opposite sex may interpret things in a different way from you. What if she really did come up? Are you gonna meet up with her and show her around? Is this simply just being friendly or flirting? Why are guys sometimes so insensitve to women's feelings? Right now, I can only hope that you won't perceive this entry negatively but will pray about things and seek his face.